8. Bring food to the food bank.

  It doesn't necessarily have to be food. But giving is a good feeling. Especially, during the holidays. Yet, it's a good idea to give year-round. Some volunteer. Others give money and many give what they can. Every little bit helps those in need. Of course, we all find different organizations and reasons. From Salvation Army, LGBTQ, Animal human society and of course, food banks and homeless shelters (which are always in need). Meanwhile, we can be good role models for our kids or even co-workers(although, it really isn't something I advertise, but putting in a few dollars in the kettle while with my family I hope will show them it's a good thing to remember to do) It's a good habit. And it's a good feeling that you have helped. Even if only a little.

ABOUT FOOD BANKS: They are in dire need of so many things. Just don't bring a can of creamed corn and be done. Think about what they really need. I enjoy grocery shopping for things I think that might be staples in the kitchen. Yet, there is a need for disposable diapers, and hygiene products as well for adults. So think about giving food as a gift you would hope you could find at the food pantry.

9. Stay cozy and read a good winter read.

All sorts of things to read! Some want only holiday reads while others need to focus on winter. I came across the FROST BROTHERS series. Oh, it's naughty, but sometimes you might need that during the holiday stress. 

10. Meeting a friend for coffee to make Christmas plans.

This is always hit or miss with me. This time of year. If the weather is good, it might happen. Otherwise, if it's too cold and icy I would rather not. And with the past two years of the pandemic has changed so many holiday habits for me. Oh, we might chat on the phone instead. But it's great if you can go out and see each other in person. Recently, I saw a friend who had had a family crisis. We didn't even talk about what really happened, but we had a good lunch and a wonderful walk in the park, just sitting and reminiscing about the good times. We really need to do that with each other any time of the year.